Jim Rohn famously said, “You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with.” This statement has often been paraphrased:
“You become like the five people you spend the most time with. Choose carefully.” – Unknown
Similarly, others have commented on the effect of our closest relationships….
“Surround yourself with only people who are going to lift you higher.” – Oprah Winfrey
“Show me your friends, and I’ll show you your future.” – Unknown
“The quality of your life is in direct proportion to the quality of your relationships.” – Tony Robbins
“Surround yourself with those who see greatness within you, even when you don’t see it yourself.” – Edmund Lee
“Associate with those who will make a better man of you. Welcome those whom you yourself can improve.” – Seneca
“Your network is your net worth.” – Porter Gale
Look around. Are the people with whom you are associating bringing you up or down? What is the impact you are having on others. Are you/they self-centered or other-centered? (I am speaking to myself, as well, in this posting.)
We succeed in life by reaching up and reaching down. This is to say that we must both seek guidance, inspiration, and mentorship from those who are more accomplished or experienced (reaching up) and offer support, guidance, and mentorship to others who may be in need (reaching down). Seek out role models, mentors, and individuals who can provide guidance, knowledge, and inspiration to help us grow, learn, and progress on our own journey. Likewise, extend a hand to those who may need support, guidance, or mentorship. We must share our knowledge, experiences, and gifts to enrich and empower others. We get nowhere on our own.
Be your best today; be better tomorrow.
Carpe momento!