Communication. It is often said that we have two ears and one mouth for a reason. Communication involves listening, as well as talking. Surely, communication is more about listening than voicing our opinions. Sadly, our communication skills are diminishing. We live in an age where words can be shared around the globe in seconds, but we neglect those the nearest to us.
One of my favorite times of my day is the “15-minute check-in” that my wife and I schedule. We strive to do this every day. More often than not, it lasts much longer than 15 minutes. We sit in the living room with a glass of wine or beer and talk. Our days can get so busy traveling in countless directions that we can easily miss each other. It is time for us to connect and stay connected.
Communication requires that we express our feelings, concerns, needs, etc. Communication is a two-way street. It also requires that we hear what the other is saying. This is the principle of “I am third”—i.e., “My Lord is first, my family (and friends) are second, and I am third.” I am third does not imply that we only listen and never voice our thoughts. On the contrary, it suggests that we consider the needs of others by sharing our needs. Otherwise, we are likely to grow increasingly frustrated with others—believing they are taking advantage, walking all over us, etc. Communication works in everyone’s favor.
Be your best today; be better tomorrow.
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