Last Thursday, I arrived at work pretty pissed off. My commute took me an extra 45 minutes because traffic was backed up nearly to the ramp on which I get on the highway. It was not until I was finally close to getting off the interstate that I learned out why. Cap-and-trade opponents, Timber Unity, were staging a protest in the capital (Salem, Oregon). Truck were backed up for several miles before the exit and all the way into the capital center. Traffic was at a stand-still getting off the highway, and, at this point, my bladder was nearly ready to explode and I was getting low on gasoline. Fortunately, the trucks were confined to one lane after the ramp, and I was able to resume a normal speed the rest of the way to my usual gas stop and to work. It didn’t matter, though, because my attitude had already soured against the truckers (the cause for whom I had some sympathy—until now). Surely, they could have gone about voicing their concerns without screwing up my morning! It was well into my work day before I managed to collect myself. My day was disrupted. There was no getting that time back, and if I hadn’t controlled my bladder….
The next day, I asked a colleague how it affected her commute. She lives in Salem, so I expected it had negative consequences for her, as well. She said it only delayed her getting her daughter to pre-school. For the three-year-old, though, it made her day. She got to see the “big trucks”. She was ecstatic. For her mom, it made her day to see her daughter’s joy.
Friday, I got a lesson in perspective. I learned a bit more about gratitude and had my grattitude adjusted. I was still annoyed, of course, but I was reminded that the thorn in one’s side can be another’s rose. I need to look for the joy to be found in my circumstances. There is something to the advice to become like little children (Matthew 18:2-4). I need to seek to have a child’s grattitude.
Be your best today; be better tomorrow.
Carpe momento!
Image source: https://www.oregonlive.com/politics/2020/02/timber-unity-supporters-rumble-into-salem-protesting-proposed-cap-and-trade-climate-bill.html