Baby Steps.

Small changes.  Progressive improvement.  Whatever the goal, baby steps.

A favorite movie that I use in my Exercise Motivation & Adherence course is What About Bob? starring Bill Murray and Richard Dreyfuss.  Bob Wiley (Murray) undergoes dramatic growth following psychiatrist, Dr. Leo Marvin’s (Dreyfuss) “ground-breaking new book”, Baby Steps.

Bob: Baby Steps ?

Dr. Marvin: It means setting small reasonable goals for yourself. One day at a time. One tiny step at a time.

Baby steps.

For Instance, hum…. When you leave this office, don’t think about everything you have to do in order to get out of the building, just think to what you must do to get out of this room, and when you get to the hall, deal with that hall, and so…

You see ?

Bob: Baby steps!

Baby steps.

Oh boy!

Baby steps, baby steps,…baby steps through the office,…baby steps out the door.

It works!

It works !

All I have to do is just take one little step at a time, and I can do anything!

“All I have to do is just take one little step at a time, and I can do anything!”  Get it?  Anything!

If you have a challenge, break it down.  Set small reasonable goals and pursue it.

Be your best today; be better tomorrow!

Carpe momento!

Effort.

I have been working with my 12-year-old son in understanding the importance of effort.  He is gifted in so many ways (both my children are), but he still hasn’t quite learned to go full throttle.   He is beginning to learn the consequences of not giving his best effort all of the time—“one-hundred percent one-hundred percent of the time.”  In Saturday’s football game, he was in only 11 plays other than his special teams assignments.  I could tell it frustrated him—as I hoped it would.  Now, he has a decision to make.

We all think we should be getting more—we should be better paid, be promoted, etc.  The question is: are we willing to put in the necessary effort?  Moreover, are we willing to accept that our effort may not bring the desired reward?  I trust that, too often, we are not.  I know that I could have done more at critical times in my life.

George Halas is spot on.  There are no regrets when we give our best effort—when we “leave everything in this room.”  Regret is nothing more than an opportunity to change our approach.

My son, has a choice this week.  He can choose to muster the necessary passion and show his coaches that there is desire behind the talent they already see, or he can keep underperforming.  I appreciate that the coaches are trying to draw out that passion.  This is opportunity.

We frequently hear of people being privileged, and some are.  But there is something that is often lost with privilege.  That is hunger.  It is a disadvantage to the man who has everything handed to him.  Andrew Carnegie wrote that he would prefer to pass his business on to someone with humble beginnings—who has the hunger for success.  No matter where one finds him/herself on the privilege spectrum, he or she must work to succeed.  Some must work harder than others, but anything less than one’s best is unacceptable.

We cheat ourselves and we cheat those around us (e.g., our teammates) when don’t give “one-hundred percent one-hundred percent of the time.”  We must push ourselves and, thereby, push (or pull) others toward success.  Every moment is an opportunity to get better and to be better.  Even our opponent (as weak as he or she might be) deserves our best, as it makes them better, as well—and what is the point of competition if it is not competitive.

Today, may we challenge ourselves and those around us.  We all get better when we demand everyone’s best effort.

Be your best today; be better tomorrow!

Carpe momento!

Perspective.

I mostly write to myself, as many readers are aware.  I have grown over the years through the support of others, and one of the greatest things I have learned is to view all circumstances as opportunities.  Often, whether our day is “good” or “bad” is a matter of perspective.  My friend, Coyte Cooper, recently achieved one of his goals of giving a TEDx Talk.  In lieu of my own words, today, I want to share his talk.  Our messages are similar, we draw on much of the same inspiration, but the presentations are a bit different.  I have benefited from Coyte’s message and enthusiasm, so I thought a would share another’s perspective.

Be your best today; be better tomorrow!

Carpe momento!

Perfect practice.

K. Anders Ericsson’s “10,000 hour” rule might be more of an average hour rule for skill mastery, but the reality is excellence requires practice. Coach Lombardi said, “Practice does not make perfect. Only perfect practice makes perfect.” So, be your best today; be better tomorrow.  Enough today’s and one can pursue perfection.

I try to drill it into my children that, in school and sports, it is “one-hundred percent, one-hundred percent of the time.”  Anything less is not effective.  In sports, anything less cheats your team, your opponent, and yourself.

Growth—i.e., pursuit of perfection—requires regular overload.  If one does not push the limits of one’s abilities—the comfort zone—there is no stress and no challenge.

Today is the day to make mistakes because you have tried something of which you are unfamiliar.  Mistakes lead to learning.  (Thus, failure is a good thing.)  Then, tomorrow, when the stakes are higher, success is more likely.

What separates elite athletes from good athletes (in addition to—and, sometimes, despite a lack of—natural endowment) is the hours dedicated to skill perfection.  Practice to the point at which performance becomes “instinctive”.  Reactions are natural.

We tend to think that elite athletes have far better reaction times than the average person.  In fact, most hover around 200 ms, which is average.  It has been reported that Albert Pujols, one of the greatest hitters in major league baseball, tested in the 66th percentile for reaction time.  How then does a major-league hitter manage to make contact with a ball within only 400 ms?  They are pretty much guessing—albeit an informed guess.  The know from experience where the ball is going the minute it is released from the pitcher’s hand.  The same goes for pretty much every sport.

Think in practice so you don’t have to think in the game.  There is really no time to react.  Anticipation wins in sports.  Anticipation is not taking a lucky guess.  It is “knowing” what comes next.

Whatever we pursue in life, practice (perfect practice) makes perfect.  Try and fail until you do and succeed.  Be your best (give your best effort) today; and be better tomorrow.

Carpe momento!

Cheap meals.

Fast food gets a bum rap in the battle against obesity.  Now, to some degree, this is rightfully so.  However, let’s be honest.  It is less about what one eats as it is about how much one eats.  Mike Israetel et al. (The Renaissance Diet) suggest that approximately 50% of weight management is caloric balance, 30% is macro-nutrient (carbohydrate, protein, and fat) balance, and 10% nutrient timing.  Only 5% of weight management is attributable to food composition (the other 5% is supplementation).  So, for most of us seeking a healthy body composition, managing calories and getting an appropriate balance of protein, carbohydrates, and fats will most affect fat loss.  The other 20% becomes of increasing importance as one reaches the healthy range of body fat and desires a lean bodybuilder physique.  In other words, if you are overfat because you eat more than you expend, you can be eating a poor diet and lose weight by eating less.  (I would not recommend eating a crappy diet, though!)

So, we blame obesity on fast food?  Considering the cost to calorie ratio, fast food is cheap.  If one is eating fast food for economic reasons, one cannot blame economics for getting fat.  Eat less; save more money.

Now, there are other reasons for eating fast food—convenience, lack of availability of healthy options, etc.—and overeating fast food is easy because it is so calorically dense (and nutrient deficient), but self-control is up to the individual.  There is a choice whether or not to “super-size” or take the “2 fer” deal, etc.  Occasional fast food is OK (though the more you stay away from it the less desirable it will become).  If you are trying to lose weight, just eat less.

It is too bad the fast food industry doesn’t offer healthier choices or a “down-size me” option, but, in their defense, they only provide what the consumer wants.  (Remember Taco Bell’s attempt at low fat?  It failed because no one was buying these options.)

Eating good food need not break the bank.  Sensible planning and food purchasing keep help trim the waist while keeping the wallet fat. Buying in bulk and looking for deals are a good start.  Costco, Sam’s Club, and the like offer great opportunities to buy in healthy (and unhealthy) foods at low prices.  Choose wisely how to spend your food budget.  Cook from scratch when you can.  Only buy what won’t go to waste.  (Frozen and canned vegetables and fruit are nutritious and can last without spoiling.)

Plan meals that give the best nutritional bang for the buck.  Look for nutrient-dense foods to be your staples.  Being on a budget might sacrifice variety and exotic meals, but as a wise man often said to me: “it makes (poop)”.  In other words, food’s primary purpose is to supply the energy and the nutrients for the body to function.  Taste and visual appeal are a bonus.  (And good taste not be forfeited for the sake of health.)

So, before you complain that you can’t lose weight and eating healthy is just too expensive, focus first on cutting your total calories.  Once the calories are right, get the right balance of proteins, carbohydrates, and fats to fuel performance, then consider the timing of your meals, if it will further help your weight management plan.  Finally, when you want to get really serious about body composition, you can get really nitpicky about food quality.

Be your best today; be better tomorrow.

Carpe momento!

Image source: “Cloudy with a Chance of Meatballs 2”

Nutritional Periodization.

Ever get frustrated by plateaus in your progress?  These can be the result of poor programming, but periods of maintenance or stability may be necessary for long-term progress.

In The Renaissance Diet, Dr. Mike Israetel et al. identify “8 realities of physiology” to consider in attempting to alter body composition.  These are:

“1.) People tend to want to gain muscle and lose fat over time.

2.) The conditions that best promote muscle gain and fat loss are so different; attempting them simultaneously is highly inefficient.

3.) Muscle is easier to maintain than it is to gain.

4.) Fat is easier to lose than muscle is to gain.

5.) Attempting to gain muscle continuously for too long results in an exponentially higher fat gain.

6.) Attempting to lose fat continuously for too long results in an exponentially higher muscle loss risk.

7.) Resuming unrestricted eating after a fat loss phase or weight gain phase results in a return to the previous bodyweight if unchecked.

8.) Attempting to lose fat right after new muscle gain, without holding onto the new muscle for some time results in higher risk of muscle loss during the fat loss.”

These suggest that one should not expect changes in body composition to be linear.  More specifically, these suggest that our approach to weight management should not be linear.  In other words, one cannot expect to keep losing fat without affecting muscle mass, and one cannot expect to keep gaining lean muscle without adding a little fat.  One cannot simultaneously gain muscle and lose fat, per se.  (This becomes more the case as one moves toward a more “athletic” body composition.  When one is significantly overfat, it is possible to add some muscle while losing fat, but attempting so is less ideal.)  Thus, in attempting to alter body composition, one must consider nutritional periodization.

Periodization, simply put, is the practice of cycling the exercise (or diet) over a period of time to optimize the physiological adaptations.  For the physique athlete or an athlete (e.g., a wrestler) whose body composition is a critical factor in performance, nutritional periodization is every bit as important as the cycling of hypertrophy, strength, and/or power components of resistance training.  For those of us looking to make long-term and lasting changes to our bodies, nutritional periodization is also of some importance. In a nutshell, we want to optimize the time spent in a hypocaloric, isocaloric, or hypercaloric state.

Bodybuilders are no strangers to the concept of “cutting”—i.e., the periodization phase during which lean tissue is maintained and fat is lost.  They also understand that gaining muscle also comes at a cost of adding fat.  For bodybuilders, there will be periods during which they are extremely hypercaloric in an effort to pack on muscle (Note: this requires intensive training, not just eating!), and there will be periods during which they are extremely hypocaloric to lose every bit of fat possible.

According to Mike Israetel et al., “At the end of the mass phase, we’re in the position of having acquired some new muscle gains, but with fat gains as well. Because our long-term goal is to gain more muscle but not fat, we’ll have to do something about the fat stores that have accumulated. However, the fat stores will have to wait, as dieting down right after new muscle gain seems to put that new muscle at disproportionate risk of loss. Because of this reality, we must hold our diet isocaloric for several (at least one) months and allow our set points for both bodyweight and muscle to rise up to meet our current state of muscularity. This phase is generally termed the ‘maintenance phase.’”

After this maintenance phase, our risk of losing muscle has minimized and one is now ready to lose or “cut” fat.  Prolonged periods of fat loss, however, run a risk of losing lean mass.  So, one should not attempt to lose weight over too long of a period.

Now, considering that most of us are not interested in adding a significant amount of muscle mass (i.e., are not bodybuilders), we might not need to undergo a “mass phase”.  As such, one would need to focus on cycling between hypocaloric and isocaloric periods.  These need not be over-complicated, nor overly strict.  Indeed, it is probably wise to plan these around holidays and special events.  For example, one might diet for the three months leading up to Thanksgiving through January 1, and remain (over all) isocaloric through the holidays.

As a general rule, I would recommend cycles of 2- to 3-month hypo- or hypercaloric phases with a 1-month isocaloric phase.   The bodybuilder will generally go through 3:1:3 cycle of massing, maintaining, and cutting.  The less ambitious of us might see favorable results with a 3:1 cycle of fat loss followed by maintenance.  As we near our goals, the extent to which we increase or decrease our calories may lessen.

A well-centered, healthy approach to weight management is to maintain an optimal body composition over time.  Once we lose the unwanted fat and add a comfortable amount of muscle, occasional variations in body weight can be expected and are not cause for concern.  One’s long-term goals will most impact the nutritional periodization plan.  Ideally, we just want it to be simple and effective.

Be your best today; be better tomorrow!

Carpe momento!

R-E-S-P-E-C-T

Is it just me, or does everyone seem offended?  Why is this?

Politics are getting into everything.  I am fine with everyone having an opinion.  I am fine with people sharing theirs.  What upsets me is that our communities are becoming increasingly polarized.

The POTUS is calling NFL players “sons of bitches”.  I read a rather disrespectful letter to the FLOTUS rejecting books that were sent to a Cambridge, Massachusetts, librarian for what may have be justifiable reasons, but, nonetheless, inappropriate.  Standing.  Kneeling. Black. White.  Police.  Civilian.  Republican.  Democrat.  Rich. Poor.  Legal. Illegal.  The list goes on and on.  I can take a side or not.  It doesn’t matter.

The point is that we can have differing views without disrespecting our neighbor.  So, maybe it is time to stop running off at the mouth and listen.  As the saying goes: “God gave us two ears and one mouth.  Use them in proportion.”

Abraham Lincoln said, “I don’t like that man. I must get to know him better.” We should do the same.  Dialogue.  We need some good ol’ fashion dialogue to right things in our community.

Carpe momento.

The work-stress saboteur.

Unfortunately, most of us have to work for a living.  Work can present quite a challenge to our “healthy” lifestyles.  It can, but we have to remember who is in control.

Now, some might think they are not in control.  I can hear the excuses.  They all start with a big “but.”.  (I nice intended pun, if I might say so.)

The truth is, the only one controlling our behavior is us.  No one or nothing else really controls us—unless we allow.

We can name all the behavioral change theories at work here, but what it comes down to is what we decide for ourselves.  This isn’t easy, of course, but it is life, after all.

“Locus of control” is the extent to which one believes (s)he has control over one’s life.  People with an external locus of control blame outside forces for everything, whereas people with an internal locus of control believe that they have control over what happens to them.  Locus of control falls somewhere along a continuum and can be situational.  When it comes down to it, though, we are responsible for determining who or what controls us.

So, when work (or life, in general) is overwhelming, we can succumb to its efforts to sabotage our healthy habits, or we can take the wheel.  It takes effort and discipline on our part to not spin out of control and let go of our diet and exercise routine.

How do we take control?  By maintaining it in the first place. Plan.  Schedule the day.  Prioritize!  Remember: “opportunity costs”.

Work is important.  (Please, don’t lose your job over your scheduled exercise!)  But, even when we are most busy, we can find some time to exercise.  And, diet?  Don’t make excuses for stress eating.  Stress doesn’t buy the bag of chips.  Stress doesn’t put the quarters in the vending machine.

Look, I get it.  I eat when I get stressed, too.  The key is to make the healthier foods more available.  Sugar is a deceiver—and somewhat of an out-of-control habit.  Recently, Men’s Fitness published “Eat to Beat Stress: 10 Foods that Reduce Stress”*.  These included: asparagus, avocado, blueberries, milk, almonds, oranges, salmon, spinach, turkey, and oatmeal.  Now few of these I would see as quick snack foods that one might keep handy at work, and I was surprised (maybe it was wishful thinking) that chocolate (dark chocolate) was not on the list.  Other lists often include cashews, as well as dark chocolate.  Nuts and dark chocolate are easy to keep handy.

Obviously, we still need to consider total calories.  Too many healthy calories will make you just as fat as too many empty calories.  The risk of getting fat on healthy “stress” food, though is better than getting fat on empty sugar calories.  And, in reality, you are more likely to overeat sugary foods than healthy fats.  So, M&Ms or almonds?  Go for the almonds.

When stress is at its worst (and even when you aren’t stressed) keep a drawer full of healthy snacks in your desk.  Prohibit, as best you can, the office candy dish or donuts in the breakroom.  Bring your lunch, if you can avoid eating out.  If you must have lunch meetings at a restaurant, choose wisely.

Avoid excessive alcohol when stressed.  If you do have a drink, be wary of calories.

Coffee?  In moderation, of course.  Perhaps, consider starting the day with a tablespoon of grass-fed butter and/or coconut oil in your coffee.  The health benefits are arguable, but, for curbing appetite while delivering a needed kick-start, this can help.  It is certainly better than coffee and a Danish in the morning.

And don’t forget to include activity in your day.  Plan alternatives for when your normal routine is disrupted.  Even less in more than nothing.  When you are stressed by work, exercise is all the more important.  Don’t have the time?  Baloney!!!  Consider the time-wasters in your “stressful” day and allow time for exercise—even if it is only 15-30 minutes.

Be your best today; be better tomorrow.

Carpe momento!

*http://www.mensfitness.com/nutrition/what-to-eat/eat-to-beat-stress-10-foods-that-reduce-anxiety/slideshow

Supplements.

I frequently see advertisements for nutritional supplements that promise tremendous gains (or losses, if such is the case).  The reality is that most supplements do very little, if anything.  Gains (or losses) come from hard work and consistency.  Unfortunately, many trust the ads more than the knowledge of informed trainers.

There are a few nutritional supplements that can be effective.  These are: protein, carbohydrate, water, creatine, and caffeine (stimulant). These have the greatest support in the scientific literature.  Most anything else?  Well, buyer beware.

Be wary of products that claim to be “scientifically proven”.  A few studies (often performed in-house or funded by the supplement company) “prove” little.  Indeed, scientific research proves nothing.  Scientific evidence is based on probabilities—these are reported as “p-values” or the probability that a difference observed in response to a treatment is due to anything other than chance.  A common level of acceptable chance (µ-level) is 0.05 (or 5%).  As the result of a treatment, there is never 0% chance that a difference is due to chance.  Even if the probability is within an acceptable range, i.e., statistically significant, it might not be practically significant.

The effectiveness of a supplement may be statistically significant, but may still be small—and, thus, negligible.  Many ads will claim that the supplement is some tremendous percentage more effective than a placebo.  For example, Supplement X may be “scientifically proven to result in 1000% more fat loss than the placebo.”  Now, think about this.  If a placebo is inert—non-effective, as one should be—there should be no effect.  What is 1000% of a very small number?  That is correct—another very small number.  (One-thousand percent of near zero is still near zero.)  So, when you see such claims, a red flag should go up.

So, before jumping on the supplement bandwagon, be sure your training is effective and you’re eating a performance diet.  Remember, nearly half of a performance diet is caloric balance.  Macro balance (proteins, carbohydrates, and fats) accounts for another 30% or so of the diet.  Nutrient timing and food composition account for another 25% or so.  Thus, supplements account for only 5% of performance—and only if all the other factors are in order.

If you are doing everything right (and few are), supplements may squeeze out a bit more performance.  Bodybuilders, for example, might benefit from supplements to lose that last bit of fat to get competition ready.  If you are trying to lose a few pounds, though, your daily habits are most important.

Be your best today; be better tomorrow!

Carpe momento!

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Dialogue.

“Understanding starts with a dialogue, and the most important part of dialogue is to listen.”–Howie Long

What is it that men can do standing up, women can do sitting down, and dogs do on three legs?  Shake hands, of course!

In other words, we can come together from a number of differing postures.  Frankly, I think a lot of people are missing this point in our society.  We may not fully understand one another’s positions on matters at hand, but we can—and must—try.

There are a lot of well-meaning people trying to make a statement on a number of issues.  They may or may not be approaching it in the best possible ways, but this is beside the point.  The most important thing is that voices—all voices—be heard.  Howie Long nailed it when he said “the most important part of dialogue is to listen.”

Today’s post is short.  There is not a lot of words needed, here.  There is, however, need for much discussion.  People have things to get off their chest.  Let them.  Listen to them.  Seek first to understand.

Talk.

Carpe momento!