Cardinal Sins of Mindset—Part 3.

Wrestling Mindset (www.wrestlingmindset.com), developed by Gene and Jeff Zannetti, recently shared their “7 Cardinal Sins of Mindset in Wrestling”.  Since I believe wrestling has countless life-lessons to offer, I want to share these here as a brief series.  The third of these is:

Pride.  According to Wrestling Mindset, “if you think you have all the answers you better start asking better questions.  Keep a white belt mentality!”

Pride, i.e., satisfaction in one’s achievements, is not bad, per se.  It is when our pride derails our growth mindset that we get into trouble.  A proper pride is not vanity or self-centeredness.  Pride is the determination to always better one’s self—to be your best today; be better tomorrow!  A proper pride drives one to always give his or her best and not be satisfied with anything less. Pride must be tempered with humility.  There is no place for boastful pride in wrestling—or life.  Let’s not confuse the two.

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Cardinal Sins of Mindset—Part 2.

Wrestling Mindset (www.wrestlingmindset.com), developed by Gene and Jeff Zannetti, recently shared their “7 Cardinal Sins of Mindset in Wrestling”.  Since I believe wrestling has countless life-lessons to offer, I want to share these here as a brief series.  The second of these is:

Stubborness.  According to Wrestling Mindset, “uncoachable wrestlers become unsuccessful wrestlers.”  Likewise, one who knows all and is unteachable is sure to be unsuccessful.

If I have learned anything in this life, it is that the more I learn the less I know.  Education is an oxymoron.  One who is truly educated has come to realize how ignorant he/she really is.  Jimmy Buffett summed this mindset up well when he said: “Is it ignorance or apathy? Hey, I don’t know and I don’t care.”  Stubborness is just a progression of the indifference and apathy about which I wrote, yesterday.  The coachable wrestler wants to get better.  To want to get better means that he/she knows there is room to grow—to improve.  A well-centered fitness mindset seeks constant growth and improvement (kaizen).  There is no room for a stubborn mindset, which leads only to stagnation and, ultimately, failure (not the good kind of failure that one finds on the path to growth).

“There’s a fine line between stubbornness and the positive side of that, which is dogged determination” (Jeb Bush).  The stubbornness to which the Zannettis speak is that uncoachable attitude of “I know it all.”  This is not to be confused with the stubbornness that won’t allow one to quit trying.  One can entrench himself, or one can dig in, gain traction, and press forward.  Coachable gets help and goes to work.

Be your best today; be better tomorrow!

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Cardinal Sins of Mindset—Part 1.

Wrestling Mindset (www.wrestlingmindset.com), developed by Gene and Jeff Zannetti, recently shared their “7 Cardinal Sins of Mindset in Wrestling”.  Since I believe wrestling has countless life-lessons to offer, I want to share these here as a brief series.  The first of these is:

Indifference/Apathy.  According to Wrestling Mindset, “there is no room for half-hearted intensity in this sport.”  I would add “and life”.

With all the divisiveness plaguing this nation, I think I might prefer misdirected passion to indifference.  Aaron Tippin sang: “you’ve got to stand for something or you’ll fall for anything.  We must stand for our values and, to do so, we must value something.

One can accomplish little, if anything, with a half-hearted effort.  One-hundred percent 100% of the time!

Zig Ziglar wrote: “When you catch a glimpse of your potential, that’s when passion is born.”

Dan Gable taught us: “The easiest thing to do in the world is pull the covers up over your head and go back to sleep.”

We can’t go through life with half-hearted intensity and be (extra)ordinary.  We must be all in to win.

Be your best today; be better tomorrow!

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Plant a tree.

“Someone is sitting in the shade today because someone planted a tree a long time ago.”—Warren Buffett

What we do today—what we sow, if you would—have lasting impact on tomorrow.  Real success is not measured in wins or accomplishments, but rather the fruit of our efforts.  The following scene from Facing the Giants comes to mind:

Brock Kelley: “You don’t want us to win games?”

Grant Taylor: “No. Not if that’s our main goal. Winning football games is too small a thing to live for. And I love football as much as anybody. But even championship trophies will collect dust and one day be forgotten. It’s just that so far this has all been about us; how we can look good, how we can get the glory. The more I read this book, the more I realize that life’s not about us. We’re not here to get glory, make money, and die. The Bible says that God put us here for Him. To honor Him. Jesus said that the most important thing you can do with your life is to love God with everything you are, to love others and yourself. So, if we win every game and we miss that, we’ve done nothing. Football then means nothing. So, I’m here to present you a new team philosophy. I think that football is just one of the tools we use to honor God.”

Brock Kelley: “So, you think that God does care about football?”

Grant Taylor: “I think He cares about your faith. He cares about where your heart is. And if you can live your faith out on the football field then, yes, God cares about football because He cares about you. He sent His son Jesus to die for us so we could live for Him. That’s why we’re here. But see, it’s not just on the football field; we’ve got to honor Him in our relationships, our respect for authority, in the classroom, and when you’re at home alone surfing the Internet. I want God to bless this team so much that people talk about what He did. But it means we got to give Him our best in every area. If we win, we praise Him. And, if we lose, we praise Him. Either way, we honor Him with our actions and our attitudes. So, I’m asking you: what are you living for? I’ve resolved to give God everything I’ve got. Then I’ll leave the results up to Him. I want to know if you’ll join me?”

Whatever one’s faith, this is Spiritual well-centeredness.  This is “I am third”.  Life is all about what we do to honor something greater than ourselves.  “We’re not here to get glory, make money, and die.”  We are here for the benefit of others—to have a lasting impact on others.  That impact should not have full materialization for generations to come.  Joe Ehrmann (InSideOut Coaching) wrote that “at the end of our life, we ought to be able to look back over it from our deathbed and know somehow the world is a better place because we lived, we loved, we were other-centered, other-focused.”  Success is not what we gain today.  Rather success is what others gain from what we do today.

Be your best today; be better tomorrow!

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“It comes down to this: What kind of father are you? What kind of husband are you? What kind of coach or teammate are you? What kind of son are you? What kind of friend are you? Success comes in terms of relationships.”—Joe Ehrmann

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‘How Much Should I Train?’—Review

I am a big fan of the materials that come from Renaissance Periodization (https://renaissanceperiodization.com/).  While I have not used the diet and training templates (Let’s be truthful.  I am just not motivated enough to diet the way I would need to get really lean.), they are effective.  I am, however, a regular consumer of their e-books and Facebook materials.  The latest book, How Much Should I Train?, by Drs. Mike Israetel and James Hoffman, does not disappoint.

The company is science-based.  Everything they say or write is backed by science.  If they are speculating, they say so and base their inferences on the available science and a wealth of experience.

Central to the theme of the book are concepts such as “maximum recoverable volume” (MRV), “minimum effective volume” (MEV), and “maximum adaptive volume” (MAV).  These are concepts anyone who is training to make gains (and why would you not want to make gains?) needs to understand and apply.  The authors consider the effects of genetics, gender, muscle fiber type, goals, and the like on the appropriate training volume.

My only disappointment with the book is that “opportunity costs” is not mentioned explicitly.  (I am kidding here, of course.)  The idea, however, runs throughout the book.  Dr. Israetel inspired my use—my students might say “overuse”—or the phrase, though he has never stated it explicitly.

No matter who we are, we battle with managing time to train and recover.  For the coach, athlete, and anyone who wants to get the most out of their exercise, this is a must-read.  Training is not as simple as showing up to the gym for a prescribed “WOD”.  Effective exercise is highly individualized.  Personally, I don’t have time to waste.

Check out How Much Should I Train, available on the Renaissance Periodization website (linked above) for $27 (hurry while it is still at this reduced rate!).  It is science-based, but the writing style is relaxed and accessible for even the beginning lifter.  Chances are that you are not exercising as effectively as you can (at your MAV).  You owe it to yourself to get the most out of your exercise.

Be your best today; be better tomorrow!

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Stamina.

“There’s more practice time in wrestling than a lifetime of matches. Repetition is what wrestlers do — what you do best, you have to keep redoing. That’s what all the drilling is for — to make difficult moves look easy, to make learned responses look natural.”—John Irving

I have learned some of life’s greatest lessons for wrestling.  Legendary wrestler and coach, Dan Gable, has said “once you’ve wrested, everything else in life is easy.”  John Irving (a wrestler himself, by the way) is right in saying that “what you do best, you keep doing”.  We succeed by trying and trying again (and again) until we get it right.  Life is repetition and drilling until we get it right (assuming we ever do).

Irving is quoted in saying that “If I have more stamina for revision than a lot of writers, I give the credit for that to wrestling. Every wrestler understands rewriting — they do it every practice.”  That’s a great thing about life.  We rewrite ourselves every day, if we choose to do so.  We shoot, we miss.  We shoot again.  Keep shooting and, eventually, we score.

Life and wrestling is about stamina.  One of my favorite Gable quotes is: “The 1st period is won by the best technician. The 2nd period is won by the kid in the best shape. The 3rd period is won by the kid with the biggest heart.”  Life is won by gaining knowledge, hard work, and desire.  Travis Bradberry wrote: “Grit is that ‘extra something’ that separates the most successful people from the rest. It’s the passion, perseverance, and stamina that we must channel in order to stick with our dreams until they become a reality.”  The wrestler knows this.

Life is not easy, but it is worth every challenging moment.  Keep working.  Make the difficult look easy.

Be your best today; be better tomorrow!

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Ties.

I like ties.  My dad was a management consultant and wore a suit every working day.  So, I grew up with the example of “two plains and a fancy”.  I teach in a tie where most dress extremely casual.  I like what the touch of formality brings to the classroom, but, moreover, I like that mixing and matching can magnify one’s wardrobe.  Ties make this much easier.

I think I now have in excess of 50 ties.  Teaching for days a week in a 10-week term, this gives me more than enough to not wear the same tie twice in a term.  Having a variety of shirts and several colors of slacks allows me to possible go the entire year without wearing the same combination twice.  I have never run the numbers on the possible combinations, but, if I am willing to go with some less than perfect combos, the possibilities are quite extensive.

I hope to have some impact on my students’ professional dress.  I have a couple of rules:

Have a color scheme.  I prefer greens, golds, and blues.  The ties I have can go with most any shirt or slacks I have.  I call this my “Garanimal” approach—like the children’s clothing.  Some term, I will randomly select my combos and see what happens.

Buy classic styles.  Don’t fall victim to fashion trends.  The classics remain in style long after they begin to wear.  Avoid ties that are too fat or too skinny.  An old friend once told me that “anyone can be in fashion, but it takes an individual to be in style.”  Have your own style.

Buy quality.  By clothing that is made to last.  With the Garanimal approach, you need fewer items to have an extensive wardrobe.

Avoid items that don’t pair well.  Two plains and a fancy is no longer an absolute in men’s fashion, but some things just don’t pair well.  I try to avoid printed shirts (e.g., stripes).  These often require a plain tie to work well.  Plain ties always look the same.  Colorful ties, on the other hand, can have many personalities when paired with a variety of shirt colors.

Start small and build.  A few shirts and pants can go a long way.  Invest is ties that can make the combinations.  Consider that 10 ties, two shirts, and two pairs of slacks can create 40 potential combinations.

Have fun.  I love the challenge of not wearing the same clothing combinations.  It makes getting ready for work less of a chore.  (But, I am a bit strange, I suppose.)

Personally, I would like to see traditional business dress return.  We are just too casual in the work place.  I like to mix it up by challenging the status quo.  Care to join me?

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Progressive Transformation.

Small changes make big differences.  When it comes to health and fitness, it is the cumulative effect of persistent little things that is most transformative.

Many of us look in the mirror and see a body that is not what we want to see.  Just like we can’t get in shape overnight, we got out of shape by small, negative lifestyle changes that accumulated over time.  Change—permanent change—takes time.  There are no secrets.  There are no tricks.  Progressive transformation requires persistence and patience.

Baby steps.  I like to preach baby steps.  As we seek change, it will be the little things that matter the most.

When it comes to diet, caloric expenditure is cumulative, and calories-in v. calories-out is half the battle.  Small increases in physical activity and small decreases in food intake add up very quickly. Consider the changes you can make today:

Cutting one sugared pop (soda) a week can potentially result in a 3-4 lb weight loss (assuming nothing replaces it and activity remains stable–**disclaimer** It isn’t always just that precise, but the difference is significant).

Go lighter on the beer.  Cutting alcohol all together is one of the best ways to cut calories fast.  But, if you like your beer, consider the beer’s %ABV (percent alcohol by volume).  Each percentage point is equal to 30 kcal for each 12-ounce beer (e.g., a 6% ABV IPA has 180 kcal—240 kcal in a pint!).  If one drinks an average of one beer a day (365/year), cutting the alcohol content 1% ABV is equivalent to 10,950 kcal per year (at 3500 kcal per pound, that is roughly 3 pounds gained or lost per year!

Cut some fat.  A serving of fat is roughly 100 kcal.  The difference between a serving of whole milk and 2% milk is 146 kcal v. 122 kcal (24 kcal per cup).  Skim has only 86 kcal.

Cut some carbs.  Look for foods that are less calorie dense—e.g., less sugary.  Eat foods that fill you up and leave you satisfied.  Low carb/low fat foods aren’t necessarily better for you than higher calorie foods, if they leave you hungry.

Activity can be added in so many ways: taking the stairs instead of the elevator or escalator, walking short trips instead of driving, walking the dog, etc.  Parking an extra 100 yards away from the store or office results in an extra 12 kcal or so–added up over the course of the year, this is significant.  Consider the rule of thumb that states the on average, whether your walk, jog, or run, one expends approximately 100 kcal per mile.  Walking a little more here and there begins to add up.   (Consider, 365 miles in a year—one mile a day—results in roughly 36,500 kcal burned or more than 10 lb lost!!)

The list can be extensive.  It is not my intent to create a list of the “10 foods you should stop eating now” or the “5 exercises you should be doing every day”.  You have your own opportunities.  Practice stacking–progressively adding small changes–and bam!  In a blink of an eye, you can be on track to a steady sustainable fat loss (remember, we don’t want to talk in terms of scale weight).  As you reach your goal, small things can be added back in.  The choices are yours to make.

Be your best today; be better tomorrow!

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Superior Man.

“The superior man acquaints himself with many sayings of antiquity and many deeds of the past, in order to strengthen his character thereby.”—John Milton

Confucius said: “Only the wisest and stupidest of men never change.”  Thus, one should be in constant pursuit of wisdom.  Confucius also said that ““The object of the superior man is truth.”  One should seek to become a superior man/woman.  Without elaboration, I share the sayings of Confucius on the “superior man”:

“A superior man is modest in his speech, but exceeds in his actions.”

“The superior man thinks always of virtue; the common man thinks of comfort.”

“The superior man understands what is right; the inferior man understands what will sell.”

“The superior man acts before he speaks, and afterwards speaks according to his action.”

“The superior man is distressed by the limitations of his ability; he is not distressed by the fact that men do not recognize the ability that he has.”

“The superior man is distressed by the limitations of his ability; he is not distressed by the fact that men do not recognize the ability that he has.”

“The superior man blames himself. The inferior man blames others.”

Be your best today; be better tomorrow.

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“The superior man is the providence of the inferior. He is eyes for the blind, strength for the weak, and a shield for the defenseless. He stands erect by bending above the fallen. He rises by lifting others.”—Robert Green Ingersol

 

The World According to Lightning McQueen.

Sunday our Pastor spoke on winning at life and related a story about how winning isn’t always about coming in first.  That story was, of course, Lightning McQueen, from the movie Cars (in case you haven’t seen it), when McQueen sacrifices his sure victory to help The King cross the finish line in his final race.  It was an effective reminder that “I am third.”

Cars is McQueen’s path from self-centered to selfless.  It is a movie about what it means to win at being third.  It is a movie about our lives.

It is hard to be third.  There is a popular Christian movement that has popularized the phrase “I am second”.  I get it, and I am moved by the videos they produce.  I just believe that our Spiritual quest requires that we fall back into third place.

I am Third is the autobiography of Gale Sayers (and is the inspiration for the movie, Brian’s Song).  The title comes from a quote from Sayer’s track coach at the University of Kansas: “My Lord is first, my family is second, and I am third.”  I have an autographed copy of the book that I have treasured since my childhood.

I strive to live “I am third” (I extend the quote to include friends—i.e., neighbors/community—as in “my Lord is first, my family and friends are second, and I am third”), but fail on a daily basis.  But, if Vince Lombardi is correct, “perfection is not attainable, but if we chase perfection we can catch excellence.”

Life is about winning.  The great coach, Chuck Noll, said: “The key to a winning season is focusing on one opponent at a time. Winning one week at a time. Never look back and never look ahead.”  Winning requires daily effort.

Lightning McQueen teaches us that sometimes winning come when we come in third.

Be your best today; be better tomorrow!

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