Fitness over 50.

I was chatting with my wife during our “15-minute check-in” about this blog and topics for the coming year.  She brought up that there is a need for information about fitness training for those of us over the age of 50.  Indeed, there is such a need.  Unfortunately, the information for those of us over 50 is not much different than the information for my 20-something students.  The only major difference is that gains will come more slowly as we age.

Age should not be allowed to be an excuse for getting out of shape.  We men over 50 may suffer from low testosterone that can result in “old sailor’s disease” (i.e., sunken chests), but we can maintain significantly more muscle mass and strength than our sedentary counterparts.  I see frequent advertisements that speak of the “dad-bod”.  More than low testosterone, the so-called “dad-bod” is the cumulative result of poor diet and poor exercise habits.

Age is not a disability.  Disease that comes with aging is associated more with inactivity than with the passing of time.  The key is to remain active.  If one is presently inactive, one needs to get moving.

One can expect that with aging the ability to recover from exercise will at some time drop below the minimum effective volume and thus result in a decrease in performance despite training.  This, however, is most evident in those who are already highly-trained (e.g., body builders, powerlifters, elite athletes, etc.).  Those of us more regular Joes (and Josephines), who have never really maxed out our gains might see some continued progress, albeit at a much slower rate than we may have progressed in our 20s.  Personally, I think maintenance, alone, is worthwhile once we pass the 50-year mark.  The reality is that our peers’ decline is accelerating at this point and maintenance passes for gains.  In other words, maintain a moderate level of fitness and people will be begin to comment on how great your look (for your age).

So, as we age, what types of exercise should we be going?  Heart health and body composition remain priorities, so, of course, we should do some cardio.  I would say, however, that most us don’t have to do nearly as much cardio as we might think.  Weight training should become an increasing priority as we age.  This is less about being svelte than it is about maintaining functional strength and muscle mass.  Flexibility (I hate to say) should be a priority, as well.  On top of these, one needs to emphasize motor skill-related fitness (i.e., speed, power, agility, balance, coordination, and reaction time).  These are typically considered components of athleticism, but they are nonetheless critical to successful aging.

Cardio.  Cardiorespiratory fitness is important.  Fortunately, it doesn’t take a lot to maintain healthy levels.  Remember, few over fifty are looking to be competitive athletes.  We just need regular stimulation to maintain. Twenty- to 30-minute sessions 3-5 times a week will likely suffice.  More than this and one is probably doing it for more than heart health.  If one is doing more cardio than this to lose fat, one should consider upping the emphasis on weight training.

Weights.  I believe weight training to be the most under-emphasized and poorly executed form of exercise for the over-50 crowd.  Weight training need not dominate one’s life.  The older I get, the more satisfied I am with just sticking to the “basic 5” (squat, deadlift, bench, row, and press).  Everyone is different, so it is difficult to say specifically what frequency and sets are best.  Personally, I find 9-12 working sets (non-warm-up sets) per exercise per week to be quite effective.  These should be spread over a minimum of 2-3 sessions per week.  Repetitions will depend on goals and exercise intensity.  The higher the intensity (i.e., the closer to maximum) the fewer the repetitions performed in a set.  In general, 12+ reps are lower intensity and performed for muscle endurance, 8-12 repetitions are moderate and for muscle hypertrophy and general fitness, and <8 repetitions are higher intensity and lead to more gains in strength.  Overall, the same principles of strength training apply no matter what the age.

Flexibility.  Some stretching should be included in every exercise session.  Preferably, this should be done at the end of the workout, when the connected tissue is warmed and more deformable.

Motor skill-related fitness activities.  Speed and power need not be considered in the same ways we trained as young athletes.  We should, however, spend some time in our training moving quickly—explosively.  There are countless fun activities that can promote agility, coordination, balance, and reaction time.  Much of this comes with just being active—participating in active play, dancing, etc.  Fitness leaders should encourage motor skill-related training for their clients and gym members.  It is quite possible to modify most activities to the capabilities of the exerciser.

To think that the exercise prescription should change dramatically the older one gets is just silly.  The exercise prescription is based on individual needs, goals, and abilities/limitations.  I somewhat wish that there was much more to consider with exercise and aging, because I could milk it for content on this page.  My advice for the older exercisers is as follows:

  1. If just starting an exercise program, begin under the advisement of your physician and the instruction of a qualified professional.
  2. Schedule your exercise and plan it according to your personal goals.
  3. Lift weights—remembering the principles of overload and progression.
  4. Increase—don’t decrease—your activity level as you get older.
  5. Don’t expect progress to be what it was when you were younger.
  6. Know your limitations, but don’t let them prevent you from challenging yourself.
  7. Don’t let anyone tell you “can’t” do something.

Be your best today; be better tomorrow.

Carpe momento!

A New Grattitude for 2018.

I am not one for New Year’s Resolutions.  I don’t make lists of things I want to change in the new year.  I prefer to do this daily (and in the moment, as necessary).  I do, however, like to set some specific long-term goals (not necessarily to begin with a new calendar year).  The new year, however, is as good a time as any to reflect and initiate growth changes.

I wrapped up 2017 with the same struggles most of us all have—feeling disappointed and frustrated with where I am.  I have been in my current job and home for about nine years.  We moved to Oregon the end of summer 2008.  At first, I was excited by the newness and the opportunity that was presented.  It turns out, life in Oregon isn’t quite the same as life back east.  I battle frequently with the question of “why am I here?”

The question of “why am I here?” is two sided.  It all comes down to the attitude behind the “why”.  Why can be negative—like “why am I so cursed to be here?”—or why can be positive—like “what are the opportunities before me?”.  As much as I like to ask the latter, I have a tendency to dwell on the former.  It is, however, a choice.

I call this choice to pursue the opportunities “grattitude”.  Spell-check doesn’t like the word, but it helps me get back on track (something I really need to do, right now).  When we speak of attitude, we think in terms of good/bad or positive/negative.  When we think of gratitude, we are often situational—grateful for this or that.  Situational gratitude is selective.  It allows one to still hold on to some negativity.  For example, I can be grateful that I know how to drive in the snow, but I can still get angry at drivers who seemingly cannot.  In such a situation, however, grattitude seeks to see the opportunity—in this example, it is a great opportunity to cultivate patience and to be understanding.

Grattitude is not something that we can simply turn on and have forever.  It is not even like a battery that maintains performance until the charge gets low, and we are alerted to recharge.  It is more like the old wind-up toys.  Remember those?  They would run at full speed for a while, then begin to slow down and eventually stop.  Our grattitude requires constant attention.

As I enter 2018, I desire to live each moment in grattitude.  It will require care and consideration.  It means, rather than ask “why?”, I get to ask “why not?”  I have a choice.

Be your best today; be better tomorrow!

Carpe momento!

Resolution—Pt.5

In the movie, Courageous, the Kendrick brothers presented a Resolution for fathers as leaders in their household.  I was moved by the movie in so many ways.  I believe in the commitments detailed in the Resolution and renew them annually with my wife and children.  To round out the year, I want to share my thoughts on these commitments.

I do solemnly resolve before God to take full responsibility for myself, my wife, and my children.

9. I WILL learn from my mistakes, repent of my sins, and walk with integrity as a man answerable to God.

I tend to gravitate to John 3:17 (“For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through him.”).  This means that it is not my role to judge or condemn others.  I have my own sins to worry about.  I am a flawed person.  I make mistakes and I sin.  Nonetheless, I strive to be a man of integrity.  To repent is to turn—to pursue change.  Thus, I strive to be my best today and be better tomorrow.  Repentance is not just about sin.  It is not about personal salvation (in my opinion).  It is also about being a better person for others. 

10. I WILL seek to honor God, be faithful to His church, obey His Word, and do His will.

I have no intention to being faithful to any church as an organizational structure.  That leads only to misguided faith.  To be faithful to God’s Church is to faithful to his Creation and all who believe on him.  I honor God be loving others—all others.  God is, after all, love.  I do believe that Jesus is the Christ and the Word, thus I resolve to obey his words.  I do not accept the teachings of churches that are not consistent with these words.  Jesus summed up the Commandments and the Law in two commands: “love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind…and…love your neighbor as yourself.”  These are to “honor God, be faithful to his Church, obey his word, and do his will.”  I don’t see this fulfilled in the religions of the world.  I certainly don’t see it fulfilled in my own life.  Nonetheless, I resolve to do my best today and be better tomorrow.

Resolution—Pt.6

In the movie, Courageous, the Kendrick brothers presented a Resolution for fathers as leaders in their household.  I was moved by the movie in so many ways.  I believe in the commitments detailed in the Resolution and renew them annually with my wife and children.  To round out the year, I want to share my thoughts on these commitments.

I do solemnly resolve before God to take full responsibility for myself, my wife, and my children.

11. I WILL courageously work with the strength God provides to fulfill this resolution for the rest of my life and for His glory.

“Can’t” is not in my vocabulary because I am confident in the strength God provides me.  I first signed this Resolution in the fall of 2012.  Every year, I renew my commitment.  Have I fulfilled it perfectly?  Of course not.  There is no quitting, though.

This is being posted on New Year’s Eve 2017.  Tomorrow, we begin a new year filled with opportunity.  Will I be perfect in 2018?  Not likely.

This is not a New Year’s Resolution.  I am not a believer in these.  Too often New Year’s Resolutions are half-heartedly written and quickly forgotten.  This Resolution is framed and hung prominently in my house—where I must view them frequently.  This is a commitment to be my best today; be better tomorrow.  There is no giving up on these like one gives up on a resolution to lose weight or exercise.  My wife and children—and my children’s children—depend on me.

Carpe momento!

Resolution—Pt.4

In the movie, Courageous, the Kendrick brothers presented a Resolution for fathers as leaders in their household.  I was moved by the movie in so many ways.  I believe in the commitments detailed in the Resolution and renew them annually with my wife and children.  To round out the year, I want to share my thoughts on these commitments.

I do solemnly resolve before God to take full responsibility for myself, my wife, and my children.

7. I WILL work diligently to provide for the needs of my family.

I strive to do well for my family financially.  I struggle with the sad salary I make as a college professor, and desire more.  This resolution, however, is not about providing financially.  True, one should provide as best he can for his family.  My wife, however, does quite well in her position.  The greater needs of my family are not financial.  They need my love, support, time, presence, encouragement, wisdom, etc.  It is not enough for me to just go to work and bring home a paycheck.  I must seek to know what they need and work diligently to provide.  I cannot pursue my own Spiritual, Physical, Intellectual, Emotional, and Social well-centeredness and not consider the needs of others in these areas.

8. I WILL forgive those who have wronged me and reconcile with those I have wronged.

Sometimes a simple “I am sorry” is all that someone needs from us.  Yet, they are often three of the most difficult words to say (like “I love you”).  Letting go of anger and our feeling of being wronged is sometimes easier than reconciling ourselves with others for the wrongs we have done.  I admit to being slow to do this.  This resolution reminds me not only to say “I am sorry” but to show others “I love you” by changing my behavior.  Forgiveness and reconciliation are personal responsibilities.  Relationally, we cannot expect progress and change until we accept our responsibility.  My focus is, first, on forgiveness and reconciliation–and not wronging others.  I have to let go of any desire to be treated the way I want to be treated (not conceding, however, to being abused and mistreated, of course) and concern myself with living “I am third”.

Resolution—Pt.3

In the movie, Courageous, the Kendrick brothers presented a Resolution for fathers as leaders in their household.  I was moved by the movie in so many ways.  I believe in the commitments detailed in the Resolution and renew them annually with my wife and children.  To round out the year, I want to share my thoughts on these commitments.

I do solemnly resolve before God to take full responsibility for myself, my wife, and my children.

5. I WILL confront evil, pursue justice, and love mercy.

How much really has to be said here?  I expect this of everyone.  Our society, however, is quick to take video of evil and injustice and post it to social media, but we are slow to intervene.  We protest what we perceive as evil and injustice, but we do nothing to show mercy and seek to win the opposition to our side through dialog.  I will confront evil when I see it.  I speak my mind—often to the discontent of others—but, more importantly, I must act. These I do not only for my wife and children, but for all.

6. I WILL pray for others and treat them with kindness, respect, and compassion.

It would be dishonest to say I do this well.  I pray, but, too often, only in private.  I try to treat others with kindness, respect, and compassion, but not everyone.  I struggle every day to do this with marginal success, let alone well.  Nevertheless, I am committed to this—for my wife, my children, and all who are my neighbor.

Resolution—Pt.2

In the movie, Courageous, the Kendrick brothers presented a Resolution for fathers as leaders in their household.  I was moved by the movie in so many ways.  I believe in the commitments detailed in the Resolution and renew them annually with my wife and children.  To round out the year, I want to share my thoughts on these commitments.

I do solemnly resolve before God to take full responsibility for myself, my wife, and my children.

3. I WILL bless my children and teach them to love God with all of their hearts, all of their minds, and all of their strength.

I must be a blessing rather than a curse to my children.  To “teach them to love God” is to teach them to explore faith for themselves and to love all of Creation.  God is love.  Therefore, my greatest responsibility is to teach my children to love—to love themselves and their neighbor.  It is not so much my role to teach them religious practices.  It is my responsibility to pursue God—with all their hearts, all their minds, and all their strength.

4. I WILL train them to honor authority and live responsibly.

We are living in an age when authority is increasingly questioned and disrespected.  In many cases, our leaders and persons in positions of authority have brought dishonor upon themselves.  Honor is not blind.  I teach my children, however, to be respectful of those who are in leadership positions.  To honor authority also means that we respect our own positions of authority over other.  We cannot question our leaders and not expect our own leadership to be questions.  We cannot expect to be respected if we dis respect others.

To live responsibility is to live “I am third”.  Call it the “golden rule”—treat others as you wish to be treated—if you prefer.  I am reminded of the “Tragedy of the Commons” when I think of living responsibly.  We cannot live in the moment disregard those who will come after us.  This is not what I intend when I say “carpe momento”.  When I admonish my children to “be your best today; be better tomorrow” there is an unstated implication of “…for others.”

I must be the example of this for my children.  How they respond to their leaders and their neighbors begins with me.

Resolution—Pt.1

In the movie, Courageous, the Kendrick brothers presented a Resolution for fathers as leaders in their household.  I was moved by the movie in so many ways.  I believe in the commitments detailed in the Resolution and renew them annually with my wife and children.  To round out the year, I want to share my thoughts on these commitments.

I do solemnly resolve before God to take full responsibility for myself, my wife, and my children.

First, I find this in no way sexist or patriarchal.  My wife and I share in the responsibilities of the household equitably.  Note, I say “equitably” not “equally”.  We are partners in our relationship—each bringing our unique strengths to the household.  In resolving to “take full responsibility”, I intend to take MY full responsibility for myself, my wife, and my children.  I take this responsibility very seriously.  After all, “I am third.”

1. I WILL love them, protect them, serve them, and teach them the Word of God as the spiritual leader of my home.

Loving one’s wife (spouse) and children—as well as one’s self—should go without saying.  In loving anyone, there is a commitment to protect, serve, and teach.  There is after all no greater love than to lay down one’s life for another.  To lay down one’s life is to protect, serve, and teach.  It means to give one’s life both literally and figuratively.

As spiritual leader, I am committing to living as “I am third.”  This is by no means easy, nor is it something I do anywhere near perfect.  Nonetheless, it is how I strive to live.  “Spiritual leader” can often be misconstrued to mean religious leader and patriarch.  Spiritual leader, however, transcends religious belief and practice.  I believe religious is our shallow attempt to know and to worship God.  It provides only a glimpse—and often erroneous vision—of who and what God is.  Spiritual well-centeredness pursues the deeper understanding of one’s place in the Universe.  Thus, as spiritual leader in my home, I am charged with supporting the Purposes of my wife and children and serving them in their pursuit of Purpose and self-discovery.  “To protect, serve, and teach” is to accept the role of servant.

2. I WILL be faithful to my wife, to love and honor her, and be willing to lay down my life for her as Jesus Christ did for me.

I have no doubt that I would physically lay down my life for my wife.  I would sooner die than see her hurt.  Jesus did more than just die for me (and you).  He brought a message of faithfulness, love, and what it means to honor another.  I committed to these things when I said “I do”.  It is a commitment that I don’t take lightly. I not only owe it to my wife to demonstrate my faithfulness on a daily basis; I owe it to my son and daughter.  I am the role model of faithfulness to my children.  How I treat my wife will affect how my son will treat women.  How I treat my wife will impact my daughter’s expectations of how she will be treated.  Likewise, I demonstrate my faithfulness to my wife in how I treat other women.

For some, this statement may have echoes of a male-dominant society.  Again, I see this as a statement of equity.  My wife and I are not equals.  This is not to suggest that I am greater.  I resolve in laying down my life for my wife to use my strengths to serve her—to be my best today and be better tomorrow.  She would likewise do the same for me.  I am physically stronger (presently) than she.  This may not always (God forbid) be the case.  For now, though, I have the role of physical protector of my wife and children.  I will never hide when my wife and or children are threatened.